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Dame Helen Mirren has revealed that she never had children because, as a schoolgirl, she was traumatised by an educational childbirth film.
The Oscar-winning actress said she was left so distressed by the graphic film, shown to her as a teenager, that 50 years later she remains disgusted by childbirth.
Appearing on Australian television show Enough Rope, the 62-year-old told interviewer Andrew Denton that she saw the film at a stage where she was becoming self-conscious about her body and aware of interaction between the sexes. Having had no previous sex education, her convent school class was bussed to a boys’ school for a lesson on reproduction.
"They sat us all down, boys and girls, all about 13-14 years old, in this horrible school hall.”
A doctor then showed the students a close-up film of a woman having a baby, telling them: "Giving birth is one of the most beautiful things."
“These are 13 year-old boys and girls who can’t look at each other anyway, and it’s bloody and it’s disgusting, and then occasionally a little subtitle comes up, because there’s no soundtrack, [and] it says: ‘Now prepare the rubber sheet’.”
Two boys fainted and were carried out of the room. The actress looked away, but said she can still hear the whir of the projector.
"I swear it traumatised me to this day. I haven't had children and now I can't look at anything to do with childbirth. It absolutely disgusts me."
Asked if the film was the reason she never became a mother, Dame Helen replied: "I think it's a lot to do with it, I think in deep, proper psychological terms I was traumatised."
The star of The Queen also said she was not a “motherly sort of person” and, although after 15 years together she wedAmerican film director Taylor Hackford, struggled with the concept of marriage.
"I still don't quite see the point of marriage,” she said. “I don't talk about this from a religious point of view or a moral point of view, but I absolutely did not see the point of getting married and getting divorced. So I really didn't want to get married.”
However, Dame Helen said that she is now pleased she tied the knot. "No question, from the moment I woke up after I was married, I realised that I loved it."

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It hasn't changed - I saw a similar film at school in the 90s. It has also put me off childbirth completely. I'm now married and thinking I'd quite like to be a mother but that video pops into my head everytime and I can't face it. The abortion pics weren't much better...
Alexa Brown, crawley, UK
I and others at my school were shown 'Helga - The Birth of a Baby', and more than 35 years later, I still remember the horror of watching it at the ABC in Salisbury. I think it was a German film with subtitles.
The rubber sheet, the screaming, the 'crowning', the baby's birth, the following gush of blood and matter should be shown to all teenagers today - it might solve a lot of our current problems!
No, I never wanted - or had - children, either. It was the most traumatic thing I had ever seen, and I identify strongly with Helen Mirren's views.
Stephanie, Sussex, , UK
I wish more people would follow her lead and not have children. Very sensible.
Diane Selwyn, Hollywood, CA,
I am so glad someone has come out and said this. We were shown something similar in the late'60s/early '70s and it's not an exaggeration to say that I was put off childbirth for life. I have never felt able to explain this to anyone and I so regret knowing too much - if it had all been a bit of a mystery I would probably have been a very happy mother. Sadly, it's too late now for me, and it seems, others like me. Hopefully there are lessons to be learned. Thank you to everyone else who shared their experience - at least I now know I am not alone.
Susan James, Glos., UK,
Bravo Helen...Bravo! You dear, sweet person!
Gary H Holbrook, Golden, Colorado
No, Jean, I guess it didn't. Then again it's possible to have sex without having a child. So, no need to avoid it.
LBB, Austin, TX, USA
I agree with MP and with Ms Mirren - in fact I think I must have been forced to watch the same film! It certainly had the same effect on me.
Chris, Rugby, UK
i can sympathise with her views. i was in a convent school and at age 15 we were shown a horrifyingly graphic film about childbirth. I swore then that i wouldn't put myself through that ever. Subconsciously i also sought out partners who couldnt or wouldnt have children. That said, i am now at a stage where i feel ready and brave to have children but wish i hadnt been put off by childbirth because by now i could have been a mother.
MP, london,
It seems to me the film would have deterred her from having sex as well as from having a baby. That didn't seem to happen though, did it.
Jean, Sullivan, IN USA
If it's anything like the film I saw when I was at school (UK) in the early 1970's I can quite understand it - you couldn't opt out and it was very graphic! They used to warn the school nurse when it was being shown as people would either throw up or pass out -the record was three people passing out in a class of only 15!
LR, Norwich, UK
Doesn't this moving story - and the devastating effect it had on Helen Mirren's life - provide some insight into the hyper sensitive nature of adolescents. The received wisdom today is that every human activity should be explained as early and graphically as possible. Two examples from fiction and fact -In the Archers story line an 8 year old is told his mother has been raped- by her. and in real life foster children are to be taken From a Somerset couple because they refuse to explain homosexualitiy to the children in their care. Both assume that 'facts' must be conveyed by parents and to young children.
Perhaps that isn't quite right and children, whilst they should not be left in ignorance and should have all queries answered as far as possible, surely must be allowed to develop in their own way and sometimes that is in blissful ignorance of some of the grittier and toughtr aspects of life and physiology.
Anne Garvey, Cambridge, UK