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You wouldn’t want to meet one of Neil LaBute’s plays in a bar, but the man himself has the sort of big but easy presence that he rarely assigns to one of his needy, needly characters. “Neil,” as one of his former London producers has it, “is just a big teddy bear.”
He is certainly big, with grizzling curls and a round, receptive face carefully concealed by glasses and a beard. But this teddy bear writes ferocious and funny plays and films that include the casual account of beating a gay man to death (Bash), a pregnant woman taking bloody revenge on her adulterous husband (Helter Skelter), a pair of businessmen seducing a deaf woman in order to destroy her (In the Company of Men). Cuddly, huh?
The 45-year-old American has his characters’ propulsive way with words. But as he eats his breakfast – egg and soldiers – in a café near to rehearsals in Southwark, South London, he talks with all the self-knowledge that his characters so sorely lack. If there’s a link between growing up in an abusive household and then going on terrorise characters and audiences alike, LaBute is wise to it.
He is in town to direct his play Fat Pig, which is, for LaButeland, gentle terrain. True, it’s got a provocative name – “the title’s harsher than the play itself,” he insists – and, true again, it’s got a provocative premise: young-buck office worker Tom falls for obese librarian Helen, but struggles to come to terms with how society will judge him for loving a fatty. “But it’s a study in weakness more than anything,” LaBute says.
“The trick with the play is to make the audience feel they want this couple to be together, but to remind them constantly that this is what life would be like. Always showing Helen for who she is. A great woman, but this is what she would look like in the bedroom, this is what she would look like at the beach. I’m OK with that, but would you be?”
LaBute lost a chunk of weight once, he says, and found himself doing less writing and more preening. But as he wrote Fat Pig, he found it turning into another of the studies of male bluster that he’s been known for ever since In the Company of Men made him a byword for whip-smart misanthropy (misogyny, said some).
In subsequent plays such as Some Girl(s), This is How it Goesand Helter Skelter,he’s become a grandmaster at writing boyish everymen who play their good intentions as their get-out-of-jail-free card. They sound good, they act bad. Or as Carter, Tom’s arsy coworker in Fat Pig, has it: “Very rare is the dude who stands up for the shit he believes in.”
However gnarly his topic, LaBute writes in a vivid vernacular somewhere between David Mamet and Friends. Fat Pig sugars his pill with bright, brisk insults and intimacies alike. And he has cast four comedy actors – Robert Webb, Ella Smith, Kris Marshall and Joanna Page – to keep this feeling like a rom-com. “This play should be as funny as possible,” he says, “because the painful bits will stick through anyway. Let the audience think this is a really funny night at the theatre – and then make it all come crashing down.”
Some writers talk about their stories in airy, almost abstract terms. LaBute always talks in terms of the effect he wants to achieve – very much the torture artist rather than the tortured artist. For his London production of The Shape of Things, he played deafening rock music between scenes so the audience would be isolated from each other, just as the male protagonist Adam was isolated by his manipulative girlfriend Evelyn. For his Dublin production of Bash, he got the American actor Jason Patric to address his creepy monologue to one person in the crowd each night.
“I’m always looking for ways to make the experience . . . not unpleasurable, but new and different,” he says. “Theatre is such a safe environment, in theory, and I’ve always looked for ways to break that down. How do we make it less safe?
I’m always looking for ways to make the audience drop their guard, to get them a little closer to the stage, to get the music a little louder, to take away the security blankets, take away the curtain call, take away the ending they expect. And to me it’s not abusive, it’s just . . . contact.”
Throughout LaBute’s career, people have expressed surprise that a Mormon could write such twisted drama – the Mormon Elders among them, who “disfellowshipped” LaBute after Bash. But LaBute’s interest in the exercise of power and the rockiness of relationships predates his faith. He grew up in Spokane, Washington, the younger of two brothers, with a truck-driver father whose temper cast a shadow on the household.
“My father would change the atmosphere, and his home time was erratic. He would come in any day at any time. That caused tension. And so I’m sure my early interest in, What is the dynamic that is going on? How do people get along? Can people ever live together? started right there.”
LaBute tried to do everything dad didn’t do. He went to a local nondenominational church, even though neither parent was religious. He read books, threw himself into his studies. “I liked being at school, and part of that, in retrospect, was that I liked being out of the house! It was a safer environment than it was at home.”
He won a scholarship to study at Brigham Young, a Mormon college in Utah. “So off I went and became Mormon. I went into that, thinking, this group of people are much more enjoyable to be around.”
There was always a tension between his work and his Mormonism. Now, after years as a semidetached member, he has left the church, while his wife and two children, aged 16 and 20 are still practising. Does that create a conflict? LaBute looks uncomfortable.
“It’s easier now. There was a period where it was, ‘We don’t like what you do.’ They’re told not to go see Rrated movies and their dad’s making Rrated movies. How do you rectify that? My leaving the church was as much for them as for me. It’s easier for them to say ‘My Dad’s not a Mormon’ than ‘My Dad’s a bad Mormon’.”
Whatever his faith, LaBute has an almighty work ethic. While he’s in London directing Fat Pig, his latest play Reasons to be Pretty opens off-Broadway. Another play, In a Dark Dark House, opens at the Almeida in London in November – but not before his film thriller Lakeview Terrace opens in autumn.
He admits that his film career, studded as it is with adaptations (Possession, The Wicker Man), may not be as singular as his plays. “A lot of my ideas could have been films, but they probably would have been stacked up on my desk, I’d never have got them made. Whereas the theatre embraces whatever it is you want to try.”
LaBute’s wife, Lisa, is a psychotherapist – and he too has a therapist’s knack for uncovering how language both reveals and camouflage our intentions. “I try to create believable psychological portraits of people,” he says, “it’s just that my people happen not to be real. I’m a psychologist for people who aren’t there. As a film director, you’re a prisoner of finance, the schedule of actors, striking unions. As a playwright I can chug along. And that’s where I’m happiest, in the dark, working on the world of these people who don’t exist.”
Fat Pig is previewing at the Trafalgar Studios, London SW1 (www.theambassadors.com/trafalgarstudios 0870 0606632), and opens on May 27 2008
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Seen the play. It does make you think, but the characters have little soul & you don't really care for them. It's slightly annoyingly; 'fat people are nice, thin people are horrible. And I will never understand why they did it in American accents, which act as a barrier to their performances.
AJ, London,