Alice Miles
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Four teenagers are in police custody, arrested on suspicion of murdering the 16-year-old Ben Kinsella. There is talk of mistaken identity; whoever stabbed him got the wrong guy. Witnesses are afraid to speak out.
And we find ourselves, terribly, painfully, here again - the devastated family, the floral tributes, the smiling face of a child, the MySpace pictures, online memorials: “I remember when it was my birthday, when i blew out the candles on my cake you started to cry. so we lit them again and you blew them out. then i started to cry. you may be gone but you will not be forgotten,” a cousin, Jamie Marsh, wrote.
And another cousin, Hayley: “Ben i will never forget the time when you just a little baby and Debbie found a wasp in your nappy, still to this day we will never know if you ever swollowed it or not. You really was so cute in that blue buggy with the white spots!! I will miss you forever darling and I am sure your up there with your Grandad.”
I am so grateful that I cannot imagine what it must be like to be the mother of that little boy in the buggy, who cried when his cousin's birthday candles were blown out, the Arsenal fan, “bright kid” and talented art student planning to study graphic design at college.
And I have nothing but admiration for the lack of vindictiveness in the message that his mother and the rest of Ben's immediate family delivered yesterday, through his sister: “Hopefully he will be the one that finally puts an end to this. My family are determined to fight in his memory to make the streets safer for our children. Please, boys and girls, put down your knives and weapons and think about the pain and suffering they will cause.”
Nobody knows whether knife crime has exploded in the past few years. Official figures suggest not, but official figures are meaningless. While the Youth Justice Board reports a sharp increase in the number of teenagers arming themselves in the past five years, the British Crime Survey (BCS) suggests that knife crime has remained stable over the past decade.
Is it just tabloid hysteria? The BCS has only just begun to include data for children under 16, and younger victims are known to underreport. In many areas of the country, if you are stabbed in a street brawl, the last people you go to are the police - too many tricky questions to answer.
So let us ask Ben Kinsella. His family released to The Sun yesterday a creative writing essay that he wrote at school a few weeks back. “I've been stabbed,” he wrote. “Three times in the chest, twice in the back. Once in the gut for good measure. The pavement feels so very cold on my so very punctured back... As I stare up at my killer-to-be he feels not the slightest measure of remorse... he holds a phone to me and clicks a button. Flash, my misery a mere picture to broadcast the monstrosity society has become.” Ben dies and goes to heaven where he finds his grandad, and God - and a giant rave.
I'm not sure what I used to write about in creative writing classes when I was a teenager, but I am sure that it wasn't being “happy slapped” as I was stabbed to death on a cold pavement. Whatever the official figures tell us, these children's school stories tell us the truth - that teenagers are terrified of knives in the streets. When I was a child in Islington, North London, you were mugged - but you weren't stabbed.
The Government cannot decide how to respond to the hysteria over knife crime. It wants to turn its back on the penalising agenda of the Blair years, the ASBO society and the culture of fear. It wants to understand more than punish. But it also sees headlines, campaigns throughout the tabloids, holds emergency “summits” and talks up a new drive to prosecute over-16s for carrying knives.
It's such an easy thing to say. But the prospect of prison will not work on its own. It is too remote. Life inside is inconceivable to a teenager. It is as hard to get an 18-year-old to imagine standing in the Old Bailey with his life slipping between his hands as it is to persuade him of the danger of dying of lung cancer three decades' hence. Especially in the heat of the moment, when a teenager reaches for a knife to avenge some perceived wrong, the consequences are unimaginable to him.
I have seen a group of teenagers in the dock, after a situation as confused as Ben Kinsella's murder seems to have been. In the case that I saw, there was a gang of youths, whose car window had been smashed, who went to collect some friends to pursue the boys who had broken the window. At some point somebody picked up a knife and in the brief, ensuing fight two people got stabbed. One of them - not the target - died.
There was nothing cool about those young men I watched at the Old Bailey. All of them were given life sentences, with a minimum of 15 years. Every child in Britain, at the age of 12 or 13, should be forced to sit through a trial like that. Give them a mental image of the faces of those three defendants as they glanced ashamed at their parents in the gallery, pitifully dressed in their best clothes, pathetically young. They weren't all holding the knife; it was enough that they were there when somebody was stabbed. Not enough teenagers know that that is the law.
I ended up, indirectly, in touch with one of the defendants for a while. Let us call him David. David hadn't held the knife - even the judge had said so. His letters from jail - a young offender institution, then a tough adult prison - were searing. He was barely more than a boy. He loved football. His ashamed family had abandoned him. He couldn't believe this had happened, just in the flash of that moment. And he was dreadfully sorry. And nothing could be done for him.
I do not know whether the teenagers arrested for Ben Kinsella's murder are guilty. Nor, if they are, do I wish to suggest that I am sympathetic to them. They are not dead, and Ben is.
But I cannot help wondering whether, if whoever killed Ben had been linked, through their schools, with prisoners such as David; if they had seen the pathetic sight of David and his friends at the Old Bailey, witnessed the devastated mothers, heard the details of the dead body - and if they and not I had read David's letters, might Ben Kinsella not have had a better chance of being alive today?
I suppose No 10 will hold a “knife summit” again.

Alice Miles has been with The Times since 1999. She began as a Parliamentary Sketch writer before becoming a columnist, writing mainly on politics and national issues such as education and health. She won Columnist of the Year in 2007.
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Hmm,
my brother was attacked by a bunch of youths while poping home to get money on a night out. for his protection on his way back out, he picked up a pellet gun and knife, got set on by the youths again, didnt use either of them got searched and looking at 5 years in prison. Great legal system!
Steve, Notts,
Why not put a 'chip' in every person; if it works for identifying dogs why not people?
With scanners in shops, schools etc. linked to CCTV you'd know who was where doing what, and could identify anyone at a crime scene etc.
Not PC enough? How'd you prefer to live; those with nothing to hide..
Terry, Bagneres, France
I submit there is an easy solution to this escalation of knife crime. Mace or pepper spray. This will inevitably also be abused, but at least the outcome is only first aid. The fundamental point is that authority is failing in its part of the social contract. It is unable to provide for the security of the citizens but this deficit can be corrected by providing citizens with their own defence, such as was the case before the first world war. It is to the discredit of the governance of this country that it wont do this so it is doubly responsible for the present situation.
Henry Percy, London, UK
I believe the figure is just 9 maximum sentences imposed out of 28,000 arrested in a ten year period for carrying a knife - says it all really.
A.Carter, Huddersfield, W.Yorkshire
John Goode has it right - the antidote to violent crime is firm policing by professional policemen, not social scientists in uniform. There have been a number of examples in recent years where firm policies by police have produced results - not least in New York, and do not forget "Robocop".
C Beaumont, Saffron Walden,
Well Mrs B - 24 hour drinking, uncontrolled immigration, ineffective PC policing and a government with anti-family/anti British policies over the last 10 years have all contributed to the current situation. It can't all be laid at Gordon's door - have a word with hubby - I think he was there too!!
Milo, Uckfield, UK
The House of Lords refused to allow witness to give evidence anonymously and new Labour would rather see the cops fill in ethnic monotring and health and sfatey forms!
Luke, London, UK
I find it difficult to believe that children in a country who has as its leaders men and women who think little of killing hundreds of thousands of people in the middle east are unaffected by the example of the leaders.
Robert Good, Freetown, Sierra Leone
Publish the letters as a book.
They might help to put someone off, and "David" will know that at least one good thing has come out of it all.
Antonia Harper, Cambridge,
The criminal justice system lets us all down but worse, we let ourselves down by giving room to this permissive nonsense. Send a clear message - a weapon is a weapon. Carrying one shows intent (Mark Greenwood beware) and must attract a serious sentence. Nobody should be under illusions.
Tim, Kingston,
Homer There is a point in giving non academic kids an education that will give them employment later on. A kid who will not make the 5 grades required might make a fab mechanic. Comprehensive education is part of all of this failure. People who shouldn't keep a dog having kids is a big part too.
Cindy, Brighton, UK
Knife culture and the fear it brings has very largely been imported into our Country and Europe as police figures will sadly portray. It is another lifestyle. You only need to read to find that out. Statistics don't lie! Very sad but here to stay unless we are brave enough to confront it openly.
Pedro, london, UK
I have called the police several times in the last 3 years to sort out problems we have from the teen lad living next door with his mum and his sister. They have done nothing but pass the buck to "community policing". Won't be long 'til he's involved in his first knifing incident. Well, we tried
Yvonne, Doncaster, UK
I've been in court to see offenders in the dock as well Alice. Brazen, contemptuous, abusing family members of the people they've killed and people on the jury. The highlight for these sub-humans was the description of their victims' suffering.
The colour of pity for these 'people' is blood red.
Liam, Birmingham, UK
Many people are carrying weapons to protect themselves, including me (middle aged business man in suit).
Many kids, not all are just more aware than the liberal elite that there is a law and order problem.
Better to have a weapon than be the dead victim
Mark Greenwood, London,
I do not want to impregnate others with what seems to be an old and tiresome viewpoint, however In this case I venomently believe it is down to the parents. At what point since their birth were these boys not taught right from wrong?They should comprehend consequences.What happened to discipline?
Georgina Eldridge, Dungannon, Northern Ireland
Police and prisons for them, and no more touchy-feely.
And fine the parents to pay for it since they brought the kids into the world and then neglected them.
Oh, and stop encouraging single women, through the benefits system, to keep having hordes of children they are ill-equipped to bring up.
C Smith, Norwich, UK
"John Widger, Manchester" - studying what interests you is unlikely to be the same as studying what will prepare you for adult life (unless you want to be a games designer, and even that takes a lot of skill)
Homer, London,
Could you get permission from David to publish his letters? Perhaps young people would be less inclined to carry knives if they could read his story and imagine themselves in his position.
Sian , Manchester,
As evidenced by the recent, hurried scrapping of the Heinz Mayo ad; parents seem to be much more worried about their children seeing two men kissing each other - whereas images of two men stabbing each other/inflicting violence upon each other are considered perfectly decent.
Katie, Cardiff, Wales, UK
Wrong- the way forward is to bring back discipline in School.
The ONLY time that we have control of the young is during the years in school. Banning knives ? a joke-IT CAN'T Be Done .
brian spooner, gent, belgium
Alice is living in the world of 'Alice in Wonderland' the teenagers who carry knives, guns, etc. don't care what happens to them. IT has become 'their' culture to do this. To be one of the 'gang' is a must. To be out side a gang is to be a coward, or a fool.
victor arram, westcliff,
It is about power and because of liberal sentiments some children have construed the laxness of modern mores as being a space to be filled. They have actually turned against liberality because it is threatening, unstructured; they arm themselves against it. Better the state and rules than this.
Malcolm Turner, Alsager, England
It should be 5 years minimum for just carrying a knife (at any age), 15 years minimum for using one, and 25 years for a manslaughter/murder arising from such use.
Homer, London,
ultimately, your solution is wrong. It is not making youngsters see the failings of others that will solve this - but rather it is in making sure that if they carry knives they are caught and punished
Alastair Harris, DERBY,
We should bring in the death penalty for carrying a knife or gun. That would soon stop it! It´s getting far out of hand and no one seems to be doing anything at all!
matt, cardiff, wales
On a C4 programme last night about knives, a youth worker from Manchester was heard to say 'it is not the kids that are the problem, it is their behaviour that is the problem'. Frankly, I don't see the difference. This apologist nonsense is getting in the way of finding solutions.
paul, richmond,
MaryJ, San Francisco, USA says:
"gang members from a particular ethnic group that has extremely high violent crime rates "
She is right.
This is the elephant in the room which for PC reasons we ignore - so no fix is possible while we all pretend this issue does not exist.
Sean, Coventry, UK
I was left speechless recently when adult son demonstrated the latest version of computer game, grand theft auto. If this is what kids are exposed to (characters can roam streets, stabbing all and sundry), then no wonder some kids will carry this through to real life. They call it a GAME.
zoe, Birmingham,
I worked at a school for a while and one child was sent to a young offenders home. He wrote painful letters about his torment there, and having been out less than a week, he had once again assaulted someone incredibly violently, including jumping on their head. Sad
Rob, Singapore,
I think Alice's idea of exposing youths to the consequences is a good one. But what would have the biggest impact is to radically change our education system, which demotivates many; instead let them study things that interest them. If they have hobbies and interests, there's less need for gangs.
John Widger, Manchester, UK
I can't stop wondering all these youth crime started when young people having free bus 24/7. More and more teenagers wondering around late at night. What about the parents, I will not let my children go out that late for nothing or for no reason!
Mandy Wong, Erith, Kent
The greatest difficulty in all this is the phrase, 'only wounded'. Blame for that can extend to Hollywood and television generally. Could we try er, education? What is the worst result of a bullet or a knife in the guts? Not death, not swift recovery, but lifelong disability. Do kids know that?
John Carty, Medellin, Colombia
What is a life sentence with a minimum of 15 years? Life should be life and hard labour with it to pay for their food. No TV, no books or newspapers and cold. A few years of this and the message will filter through.
M Wilson, Bidache, france
Knife summits, consultation documents, studies, profiles all a total waste of time except for the PM photo op. Even wild Boris is towing the party line. Put these knife toting YOBS in leg irons and the stocks for 30 days then you watch then run.
Lloyd, London,
It might sound not very liberal, but plainly, whilst people are banged up the rest of society is protected. The idea that, carrying a knife carries an exemplary sentence 10 - 15 years or more - no remission, is the best option in our circs.
The man will crush your car, so why not your youth?
Damien, Monchengladbach, Germany
It wasn't "knife culture" that killed Mr. Kinsella. Abstract phrases don't kill people, but as long as there are those who believe they do, the problem won't be addressed. It was gang members from a particular ethnic group that has extremely high violent crime rates in your country, as well as mine.
MaryJ, San Francisco, USA
The established political parties have no answers - it is they who have brought us to this point in our nation's decline. Until people accept this fact, this will go on, and continue downwards.....
Paul Williams, London, England
And so, another young life tragically wasted, for what? forget sentencing, the offenders will only acquire new (skills) in prison at the taxpayers cost, the answer is simple, if you're caught carrying a knife, two years national service in Afghanastan, no question, no excuse, no exceptions!
Pat Tedd, Angouleme, France
The Justice System and the Police has been so bureacratised and mismanaged under Labour that even citizens who try to do the right thing, such as that man who made a citizens arrest on a yob, get arrested. Meanwhile they don't address the cause which is broken families, drugs and alcohol.
John Goode, Welwyn Garden City, UK